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Gray divorce is another term for divorce later in life. Typically, this includes people divorcing at age 50 or older. The gray divorce rate in America has been rising since the 1990s, as the divorce rate for all other age groups has been falling.
The divorce attorneys of Ellis Family Law, P.L.L.C., proudly represent North Carolina individuals divorcing later in life. Our entire team has decades of combined experience and is uniquely situated to assist those facing complex divorces. With offices in Durham, Raleigh, Cary, Pittsboro and Wake Forest, we represent those throughout the Triangle area.
As gray divorces happen later in life, most couples will not need to consider child custody or child support – two areas of high contention in other cases. With these divorces, any children involved may not be adults and out of the house.
However, getting divorced close to retirement age will likely introduce unique financial challenges. Key factors to consider with gray divorce may include:
Typically, couples divorcing later in life have accumulated more assets, making property and asset division high stakes. How to divide retirement accounts and pension plans will likely be the biggest challenge. A qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) can detail how to divide retirement plan assets fairly between spouses.
Another consideration for those divorcing will be how to adjust their retirement plans. Divorce may set back retirement plans for a few years or if an individual has already retired, they may require financial guidance on adjusting their lifestyle to fit their new financial reality.
Gray divorce numbers have been climbing for years and today, divorce is much more common for baby boomers compared to other generations. Many factors contribute to this trend but one main reason for this is that the negative stigma previous generations held about divorce has largely been erased over time. On top of that, many married couples prioritized raising children together. As such, becoming empty nesters is a common cause of divorce filings.
I’ve had the pleasure of working with this firm for several years in a professional capacity. They’re a great group of people…friendly, down-to-earth, and always easy to work with.
...I’ve had the pleasure of working with this firm for several years in a professional capacity. They’re a great group of people…friendly, down-to-earth, and always easy to work with.
I recently worked with Hank at Ellis Family Law to review my estate planning documents, and he was fantastic. He took the time to go through everything carefully and answered...
I recently worked with Hank at Ellis Family Law to review my estate planning documents, and he was fantastic. He took the time to go through everything carefully and answered all of my questions with total patience and clarity. The entire process was smooth, professional, and reassuring. I highly recommend Hank and the team at Ellis Family Law if you need help getting your estate plan in order.
Shannon Tucker helped me achieve an exceptional result in my case, and her services were well worth the cost. She is highly experienced, competent, knowledgeable, and savvy. Throughout the process,...
Shannon Tucker helped me achieve an exceptional result in my case, and her services were well worth the cost. She is highly experienced, competent, knowledgeable, and savvy. Throughout the process, I felt that my case was in capable hands. If you are looking for an attorney who knows what she is doing and will take good care of you, I highly recommend Shannon Tucker.
Tremendously helpful, responsibly aggressive in an advisory capacity. Fortunate to have been referred to Kathleen.
...Tremendously helpful, responsibly aggressive in an advisory capacity. Fortunate to have been referred to Kathleen.
Kathleen and her team are excellent. She is straightforward, professional, and gives honest advice, even when it isn’t what you want to hear. She focuses on your best interests and...
Kathleen and her team are excellent. She is straightforward, professional, and gives honest advice, even when it isn’t what you want to hear. She focuses on your best interests and helps you work through a difficult process. I appreciate her guidance and the team’s support. Highly recommend.
Dear Shannon Tucker and Ellis Family Law, I truly cannot say enough good things about Shannon and her team. Going through a custody battle involving my son was one of...
Dear Shannon Tucker and Ellis Family Law,
I truly cannot say enough good things about Shannon and her team. Going through a custody battle involving my son was one of the most stressful and emotional situations I’ve ever faced, and having Shannon in my corner gave me an incredible amount of peace of mind.
From the beginning, I trusted her completely. Even with an incredibly short notice with my request for help, Shannon handled every aspect of my case tactfully, professionally, and with genuine care. She was an incredible negotiator, always made sure I understood what was happening and when/why it was happening, and most importantly, made sure I felt comfortable with every decision along the way.
In a situation that naturally comes with so much stress and uncertainty, Shannon took a tremendous amount of that weight off my shoulders. I knew she was fighting for what mattered most to me and that I could trust her judgment every step of the way.
Calling her a lifesaver honestly feels like an understatement. I will always be grateful for what Shannon did for me and my family. If you are looking for an attorney who is professional, compassionate, trustworthy, and someone you genuinely want in your corner, I cannot recommend Shannon and Ellis Family Law highly enough.
Five stars without hesitation, thank you so much!
We are equally skilled in litigation and in resolving disputes outside of court.
Mediation, arbitration, and collaborative approaches that resolve disputes with less stress and more cooperation.
Thoughtful advocacy for parenting arrangements that protect your children and preserve what matters most.
We can assist with complex divorces, using our knowledge and experience to uncover customized solutions. If you face a gray divorce or high-asset divorce in North Carolina, contact the attorneys of . Contact us online to reach us at our Durham, Raleigh, Cary, Pittsboro, or Wake Forest offices, or call at to schedule a consultation.
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