Gray Ellis

Gray Ellis

Founder & Managing Partner
Phone:
919-688-9400
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Gray Ellis is the founder and managing partner of Ellis Family Law and has successfully represented individuals and families in their most important legal matters for more than 17 years. He is also Board Certified by the North Carolina Board of Legal Specialization – a distinction held by less than 2% of all family law practitioners in the state – and has been recognized for excellence in the practice of law by numerous independent attorney rating services.

In addition to his training and experience, Gray believes his effectiveness on behalf of clients is due in part to his personal experience as a parent who has gone through a separation.

"Perspective is very powerful in the practice of law, and especially in issues involving divorce, child custody, support, and end of life planning. I feel my background makes me a more effective advocate on behalf of our clients and provides an extra layer of determination and understanding about exactly what it is they are going through when they hire our firm." - Gray Ellis

Gray is also a believer in giving back to both the legal profession and broader communities served by the practice. He is a Board Member of Meals on Wheels Durham and created the Feed the Need Gala, an annual event dedicated to raising awareness and funding to fight nutritional challenges among our elderly population.

In his free time, Gray enjoys tennis, golf, traveling and watching ACC sporting events.

Practice Areas

  • Family Law
  • Estate Planning

Certifications

  • Board Certified in Family Law, North Carolina Board of Legal Specialization

Honors & Awards

  • Business North Carolina Legal Elite, 2016-18
  • Leaders in Law Honoree, Lawyers Weekly, 2017
  • Martindale-Hubbell Client Distinction Award, 2015, AV Preeminent Award, 2015-19, AV Preeminent Judicial Award, 2016-17
  • Top 100 Family Lawyers in North Carolina Honoree, The American Society of Legal Advocates, 2016
  • Charlotte Magazine North Carolina’s Super Lawyers, 2016
  • Top 100 Lawyer Honoree, The National Advocates, 2014-16
  • Art of Law Excellence Award, 2015
  • Super Lawyer’s Rising Stars, 2010-12
  • AVVO 10.0 Rating

Admissions

  • North Carolina

Education

  • North Carolina Central University School of Law, J.D., cum laude
  • North Carolina State University, B.A. with honors

Professional Associations & Affiliations

  • North Carolina State Bar
    • First Chairperson, Modern Family Committee
    • Member, Family Law Membership Committee
  • Durham County Bar Association
  • North Carolina Academy of Trial Lawyers

Speaking Engagements

  • Duke University School of Law, Guest Lecturer
  • University of North Carolina School of Women and Gender Studies, Guest Lecturer
  • Divorce Clinic, Self-Help, Speaker
  • Equitable Distribution Clinic, Speaker

Community Service

  • Board Member, Meals on Wheels Durham
  • Founder, Feed the Need Gala
  • Habitat for Humanity
  • Sponsor, Compass Center for Women Passion and Purple Event
  • Sponsor, Durham Blues & Brews Festival Benefitting The Exchange Club of Greater Durham

Prior Positions

  • Partner, Burton & Ellis
  • Juvenile Court Counselor, Wake County